Should spanking be a way of disipline? - mommies spanking audio
OK, I have 4 children, I would like to spank my children, but sometimes we could not do more. I'm in the corner, there is some time, and I even try to talk to them, they show that Mom stomach.
Oh by the way I ONLY bottom spanking. ANY BODY give me some advice?
Sunday, January 31, 2010
Mommies Spanking Audio Should Spanking Be A Way Of Disipline?
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wow, with 4 children, many things in your hands! I raised 3 children. My oldest son is 23, my second son is 20 and the girl is now 17th If you asked one of my children if I beat them when they deserve it without blinking, they would say "hell yes. But if you asked them when was the last time they were spanking, I do not think any one of them could say. If they learn now, they have to face the results of their actions, I think, much better at life. None of my children have done nothing worse than a traffic ticket. They taught young people (due to the lower lashes, if he deserves it) if you are not wrong, it will have consequences. But my first rule was always, never, never, never missed an opportunity to hugg her son. If you are wanting a hug, Give em a big one! If you huggung them feel you have it! And ever after he struck to give the stew a while, then, that em Hugg and let them know that you love them and remind them again, not destroy.
Good luck! (ITo check that came with a manual,) as a car!
I think what we sound like parenthood. Physical discipline of children is a controversial topic, but I'm for it. Hitting a child in the background is probably the only way to let them know they are doing something wrong, not her spirit out to understand a presentation or see how you develop the feeling. My parents took me in the bottom half, when they wanted me to understand what I was doing something, and I grew naughty good for him. As Long As You Do not Hurt them, and only when they do something wrong, I think it's the best way to get young children students.
That is totally wrong. Discipline your children what they think is best. Do not let others tell you how to discipline their children.
That is totally wrong. Discipline your children what they think is best. Do not let others tell you how to discipline their children.
Yes it is a form of discipline. Looks like you're doing everything. Do not let that someone will say that beating "hit" or "violent".
I agree it is a form of discipline. Especially when used correctly. I've learned (and I'm sure you can not even) really give to my son 3 times and is 4 1 / 2.
Sometimes the words and outs does not work and he was so shocked and offended and embarrassed if I did the first time what he had to say, if he has done wrong in the next one, "Do you want a spanking?
He knew it was possible for him to get too and it was no idle threat.
If you use all the time, is no longer a threat and can be difficult to cross at a spanking and to conduct a direct abuse, and the idea is not really the injury or damage.
I think the idea of the struggle against the beatings went too far and too many unruly kids were running everywhere.
They said that they have kids. How old are they? You can too young for all the trouble to be truly effective. For very young children, I remove them from the situation and using positive reinforcement (they start doing something good, instead of preventing them, because something bad) works best.
For children ...
They say that's nothing, but what are your expectations for "work"? What kind of punishment, children are behaving badly. It is crucial that they learn from their actions and did not return the same result. Be sure to explain that if you select this action, which will receive the punishment XX. Then explain, if so, that they are punished because they decided to XX.
They said that they have kids. How old are they? You can too young for all the trouble to be truly effective. For very young children, I remove them from the situation and using positive reinforcement (they start doing something good, instead of preventing them, because something bad) works best.
For children ...
They say that's nothing, but what are your expectations for "work"? What kind of punishment, children are behaving badly. It is crucial that they learn from their actions and did not return the same result. Be sure to explain that if you select this action, which will receive the punishment XX. Then explain, if so, that they are punished because they decided to XX.
Hitting is to agree, for good reasons and under given circumstances.
Our 3 years of being beaten when you cross a certain line, and was warned, but even more. He received a severe beating and short-term bottom (pants) and occurs naturally when you say sorry, make sure you understand what I did was wrong and why - and everywhere, its solution. It can not hurt and never in the spur of the moment is still a slap in the face, but see rule after the evening to decide who can, but never in the heat of the moment.
Hitting is to agree, for good reasons and under given circumstances.
Our 3 years of being beaten when you cross a certain line, and was warned, but even more. He received a severe beating and short-term bottom (pants) and occurs naturally when you say sorry, make sure you understand what I did was wrong and why - and everywhere, its solution. It can not hurt and never in the spur of the moment is still a slap in the face, but see rule after the evening to decide who can, but never in the heat of the moment.
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If you do not need to discipline their children. even if you are younger and touch, which should not be blasting their hands are in order. but otherwise well done.
Discipline is the best option. If you do not hold children NOW ONLINE Walk All Over You "when they are older. I think this is a big problem with children do is not your parents CORRECTION. Ever Seen The Screaming in a mall brat and her parents anything? It is the first child who finds himself in jail.
Discipline is the best option. If you do not hold children NOW ONLINE Walk All Over You "when they are older. I think this is a big problem with children do is not your parents CORRECTION. Ever Seen The Screaming in a mall brat and her parents anything? It is the first child who finds himself in jail.
Well, it's a school of thought that says:
"Here I am, an adult, a college graduate, too, and the only way to reason with you is for you, I whip, what * the * I must confess that I was sometimes attempted.
What for me is usually rethink their position. If you are aggravating to me because things are thrown on the table several times, I think, if this should be on the table. If you have no training nude (she is potty. I), a coat and take him outside to play, or I can lock that can not be overcome in the door. I try not a rarity: I use it for security and not because I am not for what the children get into the prepared.
Discipline in a double sense: children have to sell change.
"Spanking" is a form of punishment.
The penalties are in the absence of discipline invoked.
Spanking May at first aid, but also become a habit, and you should be more difficult or online hit. My mother had me crying and I always, and now as adults have absolutely no respect for them (I hate the guts)
I think talking to them and hard to explain what is right and what is the best way. Whenever I think I would like to spank my child, take a deep breath and calm down. Once I'm calm, I am speaking for them and give them time out if necessary. I think best when I (the plane) and look straight in the eye and tell them what they feel they are doing is wrong. She also teaches them to communicate better with themselves and others.
Children are smart and usually know when they are wrong.
Good luck!
I teach my children both in the past, but I've learned that, although it seems that she was the better through the corner or the wait, not really; t. Everything he did was to feed their anger and teaches, such as the right to express their feelings. I've learned that if you are in line with its entry into the corner Everytime disobedient and make sure what they did, say, is done work.You very consistent, and not loose. I have also set up a sign with the rules of the house and explain to them and tell them the punishment for the violation of these rules is broken, the age limit in minutes on the corner every time the rules. My daughter is almost 10 years, and she stood on this corner every 10 minutes during most of the first day I started, but the next day, improved and he worked like a dream for me. Never underestimate your kids. They understand more than you think. I also another show with prices in it. You get a star for each day orEY were good and not break the rules. At the end of the week. Normally on Saturday. She handed him the bottle for a prize numbered stars. As of 3 stars for the week to take the carafe is 3star. The awards were given in small vials with 1 star extra dessert at dinner, so 50cents and prices rose for every bottle of stars. Thus, efforts to grow the whole week to do well. It initially seems trivial, but it works. I have four children. Three boys and a girl. The age ranged 8 to 14 years, and this method is well suited. Takes a little patience, but it pays in the end. Hope this helps.
Your strokes can do no harm. teach her spanking them, they will thank you someday when they have children and see how much pain they really were.
I personally believe in spanking. I have 2 children and OCO gre with 3 brothers, I know the stress of the children .. lol
The pointer I can give is that, in accordance with which method you choose. I do not think everything should be resolved by flogging. My kids can almost say my tone when pushed to their limits or not. 5 years. Menor 16 months ()
It is time and commitment
I am sure you will always have the thumbs down, but I agree with spanking, depending on the situation. If you have tried positive reinforcement, and we have tried all, and that your child does not stand still or not listen, you can give them a little swat their prey. How many people our age, but I lost and survives, her parents say and can not be arrested for abuse? If certain people have perfect children, then you can not beat them ... and some believe their children are perfect and never disciplined ... if it is worth fighting for. Personally, I saw that my cousin was not a hit, but tried to reason with her, give time-out, etc. .. not degraded by something, and is a holy terror ... It is a terrible child, and nobody wants to be near her. Sometimes spanking is the only discipline that the child might react.
Remember, not evil ... calm one minute, before explaining what he was doing was wrong then Smack her ass. And God bless you with 4 children so young!
First, it is not to disturb mamma. Do not discipline our children, B / C, which concerns us, disciplines we teach the difference between good and evil. A bit of positive attention every day goes a long way in reducing misconduct. Be sure to spend time with them every day. Finally, I think very hard about this ... Spend more time praising ... or more time telling them they have done wrong?
And by the way, I agree with beatings as a form of discipline.
First, it is not to disturb mamma. Do not discipline our children, B / C, which concerns us, disciplines we teach the difference between good and evil. A bit of positive attention every day goes a long way in reducing misconduct. Be sure to spend time with them every day. Finally, I think very hard about this ... Spend more time praising ... or more time telling them they have done wrong?
And by the way, I agree with beatings as a form of discipline.
Use with good reason, and only for children between right and wrong teaching spanking. Some children do not meet the "voice" alone. Each child reacts differently to discipline. When raising growling voice does not work, yes ... give a boost here and there. And never forget that you are not a reason to 2-3 years. They need discipline.
Good luck! :)
It comes in two respects. Therefore, a thrashing. Is it because they obey you, or because they have committed an innocent mistake. If your disobedience, and, of course, to punish them through beatings. As the old adage, "Spare the rod and spoil the child. If an error such as the shooting and plaque rupture, no, not his right to beat her.
The second thing is, like spanking. If beating by hand or strap on the floor again, or maybe it's good. If you go out there and break a branch from a tree and beat them around until they are defeated, then it would be a mistake.
And then it's my opinion.
I have never, and never had a reason to raise my hand to my daughter too. I join fully in the search:
Although spanking to relieve the frustration of a parent and stop misbehavior of May, shortly after the American Academy of Pediatrics (1995), suggest the researchers, that may be the least effective method of discipline blows. To test this hypothesis, researchers surveyed parents, with the assumption that if spanking worked, children who must be bonded to learn, how to get in time to make it less often punished (Leach, act 1996). However, the results show that families that spanking their children before they are capable of twelve months more, their children, aged 4 years, often spank in the families do not start, whipped cream overnight. So have the children do not seem to learn that parents communicate with blows.
Spanking May, his ineffective because it does not teach alternative behavior (American Academy of Pediatrics, 1995). In fact, children often feel angry, humiliated, helpless after spanked (Samalin & Whitney, 1995). The first lesson to learn seems to be that they are working harder, not to be caught.
Spanking also sends the wrong message to children (Samalin & Whitney, 1995). Spanking communicates that hitting is an acceptable way to solve problems, and that is ok for an adult to make a smaller one. Moreover, if the children have lost, you can see what they have done something wrong, but in many cases, too young to understand, to the classroom. This is understood as a very difficult for an adult or a child: "It hurts because I have no desire to hurt."
Finally, the whip of discipline is the main method is used, some potentially harmful long-term consequences such as increased chances of misbehavior, aggression, violence or criminal behavior, learning problems and depression (Straus, 1995).
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